2017, B.R.I.N.G ย I.T O.N !

Are you one of those people like me who are lying back on their bed and seeing the time pass by until it is 2017?! 

Haven’t we ALL I mean each and everyone one of us come a LONG way? Can we simply take a moment to appreciate ourselves for surviving 100% of all the crappy days??  We’re here guys and it is an achievement in itself. We did not give up when things ran downhill. We were courageous enough to handle whatever life decided to throw our way. I have in mind that this alone should be capable to give us confidence to step into this beautiful brand new year, right? Yes, bring it on 2017! 

Let us not look forward for an easier year,  but let us look forward to a year where we mould ourselves to become so substantial that we can proudly say – I got this covered. Let us look ahead to the  challenges that will build us up. Let us look forward to creating a kinder place. Let us look forward to becoming the very best editions of ourselves   

โค๐Ÿ‚๐Ÿ‚Happy new year y’all ! โค๐Ÿ‚๐Ÿ‚

Let’s make this one great ๐Ÿ™‚๐Ÿ™‚.

 I pray that we all experience an awesome 2017. 

Love โคโค

Asking for help is not weakness.ย 

โ€‹Why asking for genuine help during a crisis makes us so uneasy?  Isn’t the very intention of mankind and brotherhood is to help and be aided in turn? 
We suffer a deep instilled  mindset right from our birth that asking for help is a sign of weakness. We try to camouflage all the flaws and problems we’re going through just to appear more likeable, acceptable in the eyes of social club. Seemingly, it puts a lot of pressure on the individual to “pretend to be okay” when he/she is clearly not feeling it. 
The fear of being judged & ridiculed makes one go a great length to put up a show of “I’m so fine”, “I’m so happy”  or “I’m so yay but I clearly feel nay” . 
The biggest luxury you can bid to someone is to just let themselves be their own self without making them feel to act a certain way to be “liked” or “accepted”  by you.  
Abiding by the same line of thought I’d also like to make one thing crystal is that asking for help is not being WEAK. When things become overwhelming, it’s fine to say  ” I’m tired”. 
It’s okay to call up your friend/ family and tell them that you’re not fine. That you need some replenishing and soothing words just to operate.  Some days to endure the survival.
Everyone has their threshold to deal with routine problems. Don’t laugh at anyone for having “such a silly problem”.  If you can please assist them or else recommend someone else who will.
Be the sort of person you would like to meet. Be the sort of friend you’d like to have. Be there for your people. 
 That’s about all it is.  ๐Ÿ™Œ

We’re all just the sameย 


I wanted you to be different 

 But, Can I really complain when we’re all exactly the same? 

Sin in our blood stream 

Heartache on our minds 

Can I really complain when we’re all exactly the same? 

Confused souls

We have all lost our minds

Can I really complain when we’re all exactly the same? 

Smiling on the exterior 

Battling  interior

Can I really complain when we’re all exactly the same?